Nothing Better To Do?

I shall not live my life questioning/criticizing the actions of others. Bitterness leaves a nasty taste in your mouth.

I see so much time spent on the thoughts of others. In the past, even I have been guilty of this. Worrying what others think of me.  But I'm talking about something else.  The process of pondering/critiquing/questioning/criticizing the ACTIONS of others.  Why is this done?  Is it because we think we know what is best for everyone and they should have done what we ourselves would have?  Do we honestly think that every persons circumstances are the same?  Do we really think that "our way" is the best?   

Furthermore, why should we ever feel like we should have to defend our decisions?  Not all people are selfish.  I admit, with some things I am.  I am selfish with my time with my husband.  But when a decision is based on actual negative change that needs to be addressed.....that's not selfish, it's taking care of you and yours.  

Closed minded, single minded.............either way, it may not make much sense.  I have a feeling it never will if you fall into this category.

I will make decisions based on what I truly feel AND I will not waste time trying to analyze the decisions of others.  Such a waste to keep that bitterness within as it fills your thoughts.  This I shall practice and try for complete success.